personal Things I began learning in the last 10 years Learning to be kind and gentle with myself has been only one of the many things I began learning in the last 10 years.
gender National Coming Out Day (2018) Two years ago I used today to publicly come out as queer, and one year ago I came out as trans & non-binary. And this year I’m here to tell you a not so secret fact: coming out never ends.
gender Misogyny As a Weapon of War I’m not a woman, but I have experienced a lot of what women have experienced, and so especially today, I share their rage and pain.
gender Coming Out a Second Time I've written so many versions of this post. Short and long, happy and angry, personal and impersonal. I'm still not sure where to start when talking about this, honestly.
queer Coming Out Queer I've always kind of questioned my identity, but never felt comfortable actually identifying as anything other than heterosexual -- despite my parallel discomfort with actually identifying as heterosexual.
