allyship Pronouns, Gender, and Change vs. Transformation The difference between changing pronouns for someone and transforming the way you think about gender is crucial to liberation.
neurodivergence Resources for Folks Who Are Autistic, Questioning, or Who Want to Be Allies A collection of resources for folks questioning if they are Autistic, are Autistic, or those who want to be an ally.
allyship Four Books to Help You Be a Better Ally Four excellent books to help kickstart or move you further along in your journey of taking action as an ally.
allyship Allyship Requires Action What even is allyship? And how do you engage with it on a regular basis in a way that avoids (most of the time) being performative?
writing The Importance and Complexity of Trans Media Representation: A Media Psychology Exploration of the Video Game Tell Me Why A media psychology analysis of the video game Tell Me Why, exploring the importance and complexities of trans representation.
guide Disaster Preparedness 101: Go Bags & Evacuation Checklists A little preparedness goes a long way in a disaster.
writing The Future is Black and Queer: Dirty Computer, Queer Cyborgs, and Liberation Storytelling An analysis of Janelle Monáe’s Dirty Computer as not just an Afrofuturist story, but as an inherently queer cyborg story.
allyship Trans Day of Visibility I’ve been debating what to say for Trans Day of Visibility, because let's be honest, shit is rough for trans folks around the world right now.
allyship 7 Tips for When Your Friend Comes Out to You Coming out can be terrifying. Here are some tips for supporting someone who has come out to you.
gender A Rough Guide to Changing Your Legal Name The experience of changing your legal name can feel daunting and overwhelming. Here is some info that might help make it easier.
queer Coming Out as a Political Act While coming out can be terrifying and even dangerous, it’s also an incredibly important and powerful political act.
allyship Black Lives Matter Black lives matter. We must keep saying it, and it has to drive action in the world to ensure it is respected and true everywhere.
allyship 5 Ways to Make Your Organization More Welcoming to Non-Binary People Here are 5 tips to help support non-binary people in your workplace, based on my own experience.
gender National Coming Out Day Two years ago I came out as queer, and one year ago I came out as trans & non-binary. This year I have to tell you: coming out never ends.
allyship Making Transgender / Genderqueer / Non-binary Inclusion a Priority — A Toolkit for Conference Organizers Recommendations on how you can make your event or conference more inclusive.
gender Coming Out a Second Time I've written so many versions of this. I'm still not sure where to start when talking about this, honestly.
security Digital Security 101 Post-election, there has been an explosion in the discussion around the increasingly urgent need for people to secure their digital lives.
queer Coming Out Queer I've always kind of questioned my identity, but never felt comfortable actually identifying as anything, heterosexual or otherwise.
personal An Experiment in Being Present I'm using my 30th birthday to experiment with my life, starting with deleting my Facebook.